Why is it, that most of us sell ourselves short? You are in a dead end job, but you stick with it because you don't want to rock the boat and look for one that is more fulfilling. You are the primary "giver" in a relationship, why do we hold on SO long and wait for the other person to see what you see in the relationship?
I read this article below last week and couldn't get it out of my head, I wanted to share it with you here.
I do not know who penned the article, I wish I could give credit, it's just SO good!
Enjoy my friends, and remember....YOU DESERVE MORE!
When she finally decides to let go, you won’t get her back
When you’re lucky enough to have a good woman by your side, she’ll do anything for you. She’ll weather any storm, she’ll climb any mountain, and she’ll sail any ocean by your side. She’ll put up with your sh*t for months, if not years. She’ll hold on to the hope that things will improve, that one day you’ll change. She’ll take it, and take it, and take it, until she just can’t take it anymore. Every woman has her breaking point. Even the best of women have a point at which they just won’t put up with the lies, the games, the immaturity, and the distance any more. When they say enough is enough, it’s because in their heart, they know it’s time to move on.
Maybe you have a woman in your life who seems like she puts up with the things you do that slowly push her away. Maybe you have a brilliant woman who’d give you the world if only you’d take it. If you knew just how big her heart was, how deeply and purely she loves, you wouldn’t play the games you do with her. You’d love and cherish her, in the way that someone else looks at her and wishes they could.
She wants someone that is going to always be there for her. Someone that will always have her back, someone that she can rely on. If you’re not all of those things for her, the day will come when she realizes she deserves more.
And when that day comes, you won’t be able to persuade her you can change.
Because when she’s made her decision, she’s given you enough time to change. She’s been making up her mind for months, giving you every indication that she needs more from you than you can give her. She’s watched as you did nothing to change, nothing to make sure her needs are met. When she’s made up her mind, she’s finally sure of what the right thing to do is. She’ll leave.
And you won’t get her back.
She deserves to be happy. She deserves to be loved. She deserves to be with someone who fulfills her, who she is truly content with. If you can’t be that person for her, know that when she reaches her breaking point, she’s done. She’s never coming back.
So, if you have a great woman who you don’t appreciate as much as you should, make sure you do everything you can to make it work while she still wants to make it work. Because once she decides it’s game over, you won’t get a second chance.
I hope you enjoyed this great nugget and have a new found strength in knowing that you deserve more!
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